Clean up first.
Dirty appearance and smell is a turn-off, so if you plan on joining
in with a couple, make yourself presentable
Don't sneak up on
unsuspecting folks. Not every parked couple is looking for
attention, so approach with caution.
Let them warm up.
Don't rush over to a couple as soon as they arrive; it makes it hard
for them to get started. Wait till the action begins a bit.
Watch for
signals. A flash of the interior light means they want to be
watched. A rolled down window is an invitation to get closer and
maybe touch. But make sure the couple is actually dogging; they may
have just dropped the keys on the floorboard or need fresh air.
Keep your
distance till invited. Don't join in unless the couple asks you to.
Be appreciative
but respectful. No hooting, catcalling, or yelling, "Show us your
tits!"
Don't heckle. If
you're not enjoying the scene, then leave. Don't yell at the couples
or throw stones.
Leave if you're
asked to. If the couple wants their privacy, don't make an issue of
it. Find another spot.
Don't butt in on
another dogger in action. One dogger's luck isn't an open invite to
all. Also, it may be a private tryst.
Mind your
headlamps. Use your lights as needed to drive safely, but don't keep
the brights on once you reach a scene.
Don't drive
around and around car parks aimlessly looking for action. Know where
you're going, and when you get there, have some patience. The action
doesn't always start on cue.
Be a good
neighbor. Don't block another dogger's view or box in their car.
Pick up your
trash. Don't leave behind condoms, tissues, wrappers or other
rubbish.
Move along. Once
the show is over, don't loiter.
Rachel's World
Dogging
Dogging After Dark
